Helping Your Lover Regain Self-Worth

September 4, 2010

A few months ago I wrote a blog on Erotic Appreciation and in my book The Fine Art of Erotic Talk  I devote an entire chapter – “Erotic Words That Nurture and Heal” – to this often neglected subject. Recently, a friend and colleague of mine, Francesca Gentille, clinical sexologist/relationship counselor, has brought to my attention […]

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Body Blessings: Sacred Rituals to Arouse and Heal

August 18, 2010

In an interview I did recently with Francesca Gentille,  Clinical Sexologist,  Relationship Coach, & Sacred Sexuality Educator, she spoke with me about the power of blessing your partner’s body.  Since sensual words are often used in these sacred rituals,  I thought it would be an ideal subject for my Words for Lovers blog. Having both […]

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Sensual Listening: Fine Tuning Your Erotic Ear

April 28, 2010

While many of my blog posts have covered some of the ways you can increase your skill and artistry in the active mode of speaking erotically,  it is just as important to develop your skill in the receptive mode of erotic listening. As I describe in my book THE FINE ART OF EROTIC TALK, “While […]

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Talk Sacred to Me Baby 4: Erotic Communion

March 30, 2010

In this post, we continue with part 4 of the edited transcript of an interview I gave on a recent net radio program.  It’s called Sex: Tantra and Kama Sutra, hosted by Francesca Gentille, Director & Founder: THE LIFEDANCE CENTER. If you haven’t yet read Part 1 simply click on this link: Talk Sacred to […]

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Talk Sacred to Me Baby – 3: Sharing Erotic Fantasies

March 6, 2010

In this post, we continue with part 3 of the edited transcript of an interview I gave on a recent net radio program.  It’s  called Sex: Tantra & Kama Sutra,  hosted by Francesca Gentille, Director & Founder:  THE LIFEDANCE CENTER for Integrative Arts ,   Clinical Sexologist,  Relationship Coach, & Sacred Sexuality Educator.   If you haven’t […]

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Talk Sacred to Me Baby, Part 2

February 21, 2010

In this post, we continue with the second part of the edited transcript of an interview I gave on a recent net radio program.  It’s  called Tantra & Kama Sutra, hosted by Francesca Gentille, Director & Founder:  THE LIFEDANCE CENTER for Integrative Arts ,   Clinical Sexologist,  Relationship Coach, & Sacred Sexuality Educator.   If you haven’t […]

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Erotic Troubadours – Part 2

February 5, 2010

In this blog post we continue to celebrate the bards of both blissful and bawdy love poems, especially those who combine elements of the sacred with the profane.   If you enjoy erotic poetry, and missed part one of this post,  you may  read it by clicking on this link:    Erotic Troubadours – Part 1. Why […]

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Sensually Speaking: Your Voice

January 27, 2010

Ever wish you had a sexier voice – one that is deep, rich and mellow?  Well, guess what?  Even if you think your voice is thin, flat, or squeaky, there is much you can do to make it more sexually appealing.    In a moment I’ll give you some simple exercises to do just that. Meanwhile, […]

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Erotic Troubadours – Part 1

January 24, 2010

Erotic poetry comes in many permutations – from the sweet and lyrical to the raw and raunchy.     My favorite erotic poems combine these elements, intermingling the reverent with the lascivious, the sacred with the carnal. Here are four poems from my favorite erotic balladeers that express this interplay with exquisite artistry.   If you click on […]

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TALK SACRED TO ME BABY, PART 1

January 3, 2010

To start the New Year, I thought you might enjoy reading the transcript of an interview I gave on  a net radio program  called Tantra & Kama Sutra,  hosted by Francesca Gentille, Director & Founder:  THE LIFEDANCE CENTER for Integrative Arts ,   Clinical Sexologist,  Relationship Coach, & Sacred Sexuality Educator.   It covers many different aspects […]

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