This little manual gives specific examples of how to use words to attract a lover and pave the way to a passionate connection. Here’s a tidbit:
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Personalize Your Expression of Attraction: Notice a quality about the person that you find particularly appealing. Perhaps it’s the warmth in his smile; the color of her eyes, the lilt in his voice,; her wit, his charm; etc. (If possible, try to initially focus on a non-physical quality. It signals to the person that you’re not simply interested in their physical appearance but in their essence.
Now, express your attraction, but instead of saying “You’ve got beautiful eyes, or you have a great smile”, or “you’re very funny”, use “I” – “I love your eyes”, “I like your smile”, “I love the way your mind works”. When you begin your complimentary expression with “I” instead of “you”, you personalize rather than objectify your contact with the man or woman of your desire. By so doing you can begin to create a flow of intimate energy between the two of you from your very first contact.
